Racheal Wyettey Writes

There is nothing more important to me than what I share with you as my reader, friend or fan and that's why I would need you to join me at the other side of the world as I seek to enhance this relationship. Earlier this year, I did promise to work on this relationship, deepen the bond that we share and be more interactive with you. In order to fulfill this; I've decided to move my blog to Wordpress - where I believe is more convenient for the development of what we share and for giving you an ideal reading experience. Thus, even though this address is still active and the this blog won't be deleted, I won't be posting new writings here anymore. My old writings can be accessed right here as well as my information on this blog. However, I have moved my contents to my new blog - meaning the new one is still that same old blog on a different blogging site. Click here to visit our new blog . I can still be reached via the following: Blog : rachealwyettey.wordpress.com

It was Friday and the final day of the fifth edition of the annual  Girls Who Love Tech Camp. Mimi and Naa Lamiley moved swiftly towards the dinning hall, teasing each other as they've always done anytime they had the opportunity to eat together since primary six school days. Mimi and Naa Lamiley have been friends since childhood and their friendship has grown over the years as they naturally vibe, have got so much in common, and stick together no matter what. As they joined the other girls; Jemmy, Larisa, Nana Akua, Ini,  Naa Anyorkor and Joy, at table three and patiently wait for their last desert at the camp, they were intrigued by what the six others were talking about - their experiences so far and how they intend making lives better in their various communities using the knowledge they've gained. The five days camp which was held purposely to ignite the love for technology of the participants and develop their technological skills, have seen the girls build healthy rel

"Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. ” - Matthew 11:28 Earlier this afternoon, a friend was talking to me about how problems can make the heart very heavy and its consequences, when all of a sudden,  I started pondering over the many times I had felt it too. So after we were done talking,  I posted "heavy heart" on my status. Instantly, Thelma replied my status and it states, "God is waiting for a call". Her message did hit me really hard; so hard that I was reminded of the many times God had requested of us to call Him and all the promises He's made in His word. I was even reminded of the many times I called on Him with my heavy heart and He gave me peace. Most important, I became aware of the fact that even at my present situation (not heavy in heart necessarily), I need to call Him. You see; sometimes, as humans, we feel some heaviness in our heart, come face to face with a plight or we feel like we are drow

I was told love is a feeling But I've grown to discover Love isn't a feeling Love is something else Way different from emotions Deeper than the oceans But gives birth to feelings Joy, sorrow, pain Strength and weakness Confusion and clarity Confidence, fears, uncertainty Sense of belonging Source of validation Unexplainable feelings Yes! Love isn't a feeling But love gives birth to feelings ©rachealwyettey. All rights reserved.

"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it." - William Arthur Ward What can I say? Could I have done this on my own? No! I owe the success of my maiden book launch to the many people who in a way have supported me since day one. My heart felt acknowledgements to God Almighty for endowing me with the ability, wisdom and knowledge to write, and for making all that's needed available. I'm grateful to Him. Special thanks to Daniel Felix Ayibontey for designing my beautiful book cover, Edem Roberta Abbeyquaye for agreeing to foreword my book, and Nadia Beatrice, Keisha Hammond, Dagna, and Dr. Vico Korda for aiding me with the editorial work. A big thank you to my family and friends, and to everyone else, including Miss Josephine Vinyo, Naa Anyeley, Pearl Benjamin, Naa Anyorkor, Henry Boye, Andrews Osborn, and those whose name I can't mention. For believing in me, for loving me, and for supporting me, God bless you. And to

Dear Damsel, Taking up new challenges and going for the things that scare me most; remains the single most important thing I did last year. I may have done a lot of awesome things but if you ask me, this was the most awesome; it gave me packages I never thought existed. Last year saw me taking steps that I was scared of taking in the past. I tried things I never thought would work for me and they did work for me. I acquired new skills and discovered beautiful parts of me I never knew existed. But most importantly, it added value to my life. I don't know what scares you most or which dream you doubt you can achieve, but today, I inspire you to go for them, be great. Tell me, have you ever taken a bold step to go for something that scares you most? Or have you ever tried something that you think was worth it? Share with me.

A week ago, a friend asked why I targeted young unmarried women as my main audience in the book instead of targeting women in general, of all ages. This was my response : I believe the right stage for women to work on themselves, make things happen, lay strong foundation and lead fulfilling lives, is their damsel stage. Undoubtedly, this is the only stage that we have freedom unlimited as women. We have no husband or family duties; the only responsibility we have is creating the world we desire to be in few years from now. Far from this truth, I've come to realise that, despite all the efforts being made to empower women, we seem to get it all wrong; we forget that some things are supposed to be done before married, we misplace priorities, we just go out of the bar. But that's not how its supposed to be. This is why I wrote this book for damsels. As a damsel myself, I've realised that we need to create the right mindset, which to me, is the first step toward leadin

Another good question from one of my male readers: If 80% of the book content is useful to unmarried men, then why is the title channeled to women? My answer : The book was written with damsels in mind so the focus is on them. Right from birth, men are empowered to be strong, hardworking and get things done because they have responsibilities that include taking care of the family. So most of them grow with that mindset, unlike women. The book is channeled to women to provide the right mindset and essentials they couldn't receive earlier but needed so much, so they can make things happen too. If you haven't pre-ordered for your copy of Dear Damsel yet , do so by feeling a contact form on this blog . Do well to subscribe too for updates . Follow the official Facebook page of Dear Damsel or get interactive with me on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter .

Hello! I received this question from a male reader and instead of just answering him, I decided to share it here in case, you also need an answer to the same question. Well , my answer is " NO ". Dear Damsel can be read by young unmarried men; it is useful to men too. Yes! It is true I wrote this book with women in mind, but the truth is, I also wrote it with young people yearning to lead fulfilling lives in mind. In fact, about 80% of the content is equally useful to men who desire to discover and create themselves, make right choices, build healthy relationships, make things happen, and to create the world they dream of, before getting married. So, if you are a young man, just know you can also read my book; you are also a human and you are prone to dealing with some of what women deal with. You can pre-order by filling the contact form on the blog or by contacting 0554515688. Follow the official Facebook page of the book or get in touch with me on F

As humans, we meet beautiful people, we experience beautiful moments and we receive beautiful packages from life; most of which are meant to be but most of which slip out of our life because of one lie - what is meant to be will be. We often use the excuse of what is meant to be will be whenever we are too lazy to work hard or whenever all we want to do is to give up. And this is so wrong. Sometimes, you need to prove "what is meant to be" that it is really meant to be. You need to fight for it, work for it and give it beautiful reasons to stay. You don't have to cowardly back off just because of a single problem (that's supposed to test you) or because you are lazily doing other things. Don't allow great people and things to slip out of your life just like that because of little problems. Every relationship at some point is set to face hiccups, and every beautiful package at some point needs to be preserved. Sweetheart, Before you give up on that friend,

"I desire and prefer to do things on my own and I believe every woman must try to do same." - Abigail Dwomoh Nyarko Abigail Dowmoh Nyarko is a social entrepreneur, secretary and human rights advocate. She is the CEO of Biggles Impact Foundation and the Ashanti Region Ambassador for Youth for Human Rights Africa. She is also into volunteering, writing and modeling. If there are two things Abigail is know for, it is her passion for volunteering (effortless to better a life or situation) and her willingness to never give up even when she fails. She believes that "when you fail, your failure must be a strength to others but not a weakness". Being responsible for your own needs, extending help to others and embracing failure as a strength, not weakness; isn't this awesome? Abigail is my damsel on fire for this episode. Be on fire!

"I believe in helping your  fellow to get there and she will pull you up there too." - Naa Anyeley Sowah Naa Anyeley Sowah, also known as Meredith, is a model, dancer, MC and a volunteer. Meredith believes that, as damsels, we are supposed not just to love each other but as well believe in and support each other. She is aware of the fact that we all have flaws but she is also aware that no matter what, "love, believe in and support for" should not be a lack in our lives. As a damsel who is still pursuing her dreams in life, she is bold to be who she is and do what she wants to do. She is also ever ready to accept challenges that brings the beat out of her, try new things, and support initiatives that impact lives. Being your true self despite what others say, believing in and supporting other ladies, and trying new things as a way of pursing your dreams, is she not on fire? Meredith is our damsel on fire for today. Be on fire!!!

"Sacrifice, work hard, focus, learn, be nice; it does magic." - Edem Roberta Abbeyquaye Edem Roberta Abbeyquaye is a multimedia journalist, photographer and a volunteer. She is also a human rights advocate, speaker, content producer, and heyye, she's on a mission to be build a tompire (lol) Edem believes that " fulfillment comes in doing things you love " and so she is addicted to learning new things (including skills), showing love and support to those who need it, pursuing her dreams and doing whatever she finds herself doing well (working hard). As a damsel, Edem is so much on fire and just by meeting her, I tell you, you will be empowered to be on fire too. She is my damsel on fire for today. Want to know how to be on fire? Wait expectantly for my book, # DearDamsel .  It will be released on March 31 2018; you can pre order by contacting 0554515688.

"If I could be my dream woman: I would be an example and a source of inspiration to all the young people around me; always willing to teach, mentor and encourage. My dream woman knows that she's far from perfect but at the same time she is a leader in her field and is able to inspire and influence." - Auguster Asantewa Boateng Auguster Asantewaa Boateng is a broadcast journalist, human rights advocate, social entrepreneur, sanitation reporter, mentor and life coach. She is the founder and convener of The Butterfly Effect, 2017 Pro-Volunteer youth leader of the month August, mentor to participants of Face of GirlEmpowered, and she is very passionate about sustainable development. If Auguster is not on fire, what is she on? This is what being on fire is all about; daring to empower others to assess their rights, caring for the needy and being who you dream of becoming. Auguster is my damsel on fire for today. Be on fire!

"Being different isn't bad. It means you are bold enough to be yourself." - Fella Makafui Fella Makafui is a damsel who seems to know what the game is about; she has discovered herself, her purpose and the kind of world she feels comfortable in, and she's on a mission to create who she yearns to be. Fella is an actress, brand ambassador, entrepreneur and a philanthropist. She acknowledges the fact that "our generation gives up way too fast and way too easy" and she's determined to be the unique. She is living and pursuing her dreams;  making things happen, establishing businesses, impacting into lives, giving back to society and presenting herself in a way that gets everyone talking, yet pays no attention to what the talk is about. Isn't this what being on fire is all about? Breaking limitations, daring to be different and living the life you dream of despite the negativities and pressure from the world. Fella is a damsel on fire; my damsel on fi

Hello! I specially invite you to the launching event of my book, Dear Damsel. The launch is a sum of an interactive, networking, book sales, book signing, refreshment and networking sessions. Meet me, grab a copy of the book and let me sign for you, and let's enjoy some refreshments. Come and meet other beautiful damsels and souls like your self and let's capture memories. Details of the launch are below: Date: Saturday, 31 March 2018 Time: 4pm prompt Venue: Oceanic Resort (Botchway Conference Room) For more info, contact :  0554515688/0279838095/0200406353.

The fact that you are excited about my first book as much I am has made it possible for me to briefly update you. Here's what you need to know about my book -  Dear Damsel. 1. It was written to aid damsels; to open their understanding to what being a damsel truly means and the need to live each day in fulfillment.  2. It is also for those who are already married and are willing to make things right; to turn the "Mary-go-round" the other way round for the good of their family and society. 3. It can as well be read by young men; ninety percent of the contents of the book is equally useful to men who are not yet married. 4. It was specially written for those who desire to discover and nurture themselves. Those who crave to be on fire; to explore, to move beyond limitations and to lead fulfilling lives. 5.  The book will be launched on 31st March, 2018 and details on how to grab a copy as well as the price will be given out soon. If you desire to fully maximize your pot

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"She said I smile too much, He said my smile is powerful and I was like sssshhhhhhhh " , Nana Ama unveiled in a frolic way; placing her finger on her lips (to depict silencing someone) but without hiding the smile that got everyone talking. Nana Ama is one damsel whose presence (smile) will instinctively either light up a place or get everyone talking. Yesss! Her smile will either infect everyone else or people will end up saying all kind of things because she appeared all smiley and vivacious. Like any other day, she arrived as an uninvited guest yesterday to give me an account of the day's ordeal. Her close friend Annie and the lover were arguing over her smiles and she had 'sssssh' both of them and excused herself. The argument started when Annie's lover complimented Nana Ama's smiles; he said so much that made Annie confess her hidden dislike for Nana Ama's smiles. Annie mentioned how Ama smiles as if all is well when all is not well and how it

"Who is a damsel?" the now exceptionally beautiful damsel I've grown to address as my little sister asked with charm exhibiting itself through her smiles. Deelia is one shrewd girl I loved so much. I was a bit surprised when she asked me that question considering the fact that she is always disturbing her dictionary. "Is she kidding me? She don't know who a damsel is? Or she is just asking because of the title of my first book, Dear Damsel ?" I asked myself in thoughts as she looked on with an expectant expression. "According to the dictionary, a damsel is a young unmarried woman ", I replied her with a teasing smile. " Oh okay. You were the first person I heard that word from, that's why I decided to ask you. At least, now I know I am a damsel." She confessed. But the question is, does being an unmarried young woman make you a damsel? Well, its a yes according to language (dictionary) but in reality, being unmarried doesn't

I woke up today exhilarated by the fact that I'm now an author; every part of me was urging me to share the good news with you my amazing friends, family and readers. Unlike the previous days where I valued the essence of waiting for sometime, today, I valued the essence of letting you know that I am officially an author (remember in my post - My 2017 in 17 Sentences - I mentioned working on my relationship with you?). The journey of a writer is never an easy one but the transition from the position of a writer to the position of an author of a book is more difficult. I must admit it hasn't been easy but despite the roughness of the road, I have reached this new milestone. I  I did it; we made it! I am so much grateful to God for the wisdom He's given me to write this book. I am also grateful to you for all the love and support you've shown me till this very moment. Special thanks to Daniel Felix Ayibontey for designing my book cover, and to Dagna and Nadia Beatrice

It pays to make a soul smile, I tell you. Sometimes, the kind words we say, the little support we give, the love we share, the comfort we give, our effort to ease the pain others go through, our quest to make someone happy; goes a long way, a very long way to brighten up a life, save a soul or change lives in a way we never imagined. A friend, sibling, colleague or even a mere stranger, needs to smile everyday. Make it a priority to make at least a single soul smile each day. Any day Anytime Anywhere Make a soul smile It doesn't matter how Feed a tummy Ease a pain Say kind words Just do it anyway Brighten up a life ©Rachealwyettey

As far as I can remember, there has never been a single instance in my life where there was a change in life; where life was better. As humans, we prefer listening to soothing lies in bad times than we prefer listening to and accepting the hard truth . But the truth of the matter is, whether we like or do not like the truth, it doesn't change its state, it remains the truth. The truth is that, life doesn't get better . Who ever said life gets better lied about that; it doesn't get better. It will never get better because life is life; life is while we are still breathing; it is our existence. Do you know what gets better? We get better! Things get better! Situations improve! Strength renews, spirit revives, soul refreshes, and the heart heals. We learn to love , trust and feel things differently. Bad days will arrive, but you'll certainly go through it and one day, you'd look back and realise it was worth coming this far. Don't give up! Things will get

A sparkling star A blur cloud A cozy chair A blazing fire A hot black coffee A shivering body Cuddled in strong arms A promise of A lifetime love A reality that Its fulfillment is Only in flashbacks A reality that Your love is a memory Alive in my mind Not alive in real life ©rachealwyettey When the promise of a lifetime love becomes just a memory, what would you hold on to? A love that was never present, A love present in flashes only or A love that needs to be revived using the memories?

A ride with Jesus is the most beautiful and exciting ride you can ever have in a life time. Jesus is the only companion with real intentions and He makes the ride a memorable one with no strings attached; he expects absolutely nothing in return. While taking a ride with men, we come across so many problems, most of which men can't do anything about. They laugh at us, judge us, and whenever we start making progress, they seem to have a way of discouraging us. With each ride, they have a deadline and there is a cost to pay. But with Jesus, there is no room for condemnation or mockery. He doesn't check his time while with us; He have all the time in this world. Even when we give him thousand reasons to leave us, He doesn't leave us, he chases after us. He's got the ability to calm every storm that will arise throughout the journey and his most prioritized purpose is to make sure we arrive at our destiny; safe, sound and victoriously. Jesus Rocks! Jesus Loves! Jesus S

For a long time I remained single Yet I was happy People wondered why I couldn't tell them why For I didn't know why I wondered why But I couldn't figure out why Then you arrived And solved the puzzle With your presence With your actions You told me why And I was super glad You were the reason I remained single ©Racheal Wyettey. First published on Mirakee App.

They said I can't But I did it Just so they know They are actually The very ones Who can't They can't stop me ©Racheal Wyettey. First published on Mirakee App

Like a can You trashed My heart Into the dustbin And as if You've forgotten Dustbins are Emptied You're here Asking me To give you My heart An impossible Request it is Maybe Just maybe You might find The heart you trashed Inside the dustbin But for the moment Just know The heart of A woman Is not a can To be trashed ©rachealwyettey

Before I travelled She was the Closest Lady Oldest Lady And the one I Cherished most And when I returned She invited me for Supper Perhaps the last supper And after the meal She smiled richly Or a smirk it was Then she asked What life has taught me I raised my eye lashes As though it hurts And shifted my chin Up a little bit Making sure My two eye balls Stare directly into Her two eye balls And then Pressing my lips As though it costs A fortune to share Lessons learnt in grieve I vomited the venom She poured into My very being And then I said If there is one Just one lesson That life has taught me Its no other than Never to trust The very ones Close to me Those with cute lips Yet with sharper teeth Those with heavenly eyes But uses it to charm Those that have long hands But rather takes Instead of giving Those with honey tongue Tongue that sweetens not But attacks like bees Those that embraces fast Just to stab me Those that flaunt T

I'm glad we both arrived on this land known as 2018 and I specially welcome you. I know you've set entirely new dreams for this year and its my prayer that all of your dreams will become realities; every bit of them. However, I inspire you to refire the goals you misfired last year; you can't continue dreaming when we failed with living previous ones. Yes! Do well to ponder over the failed dreams, probe them further and figure out how best you can achieve them this time around. So while you focus on the new dreams, remember the old dreams you failed to achieve. Also, don't just dream, put on an extra effort to achieve them. I believe you will end this year with great celebration because of your achievements. You're blessed! Happy New Year!