Racheal Wyettey Writes

Dear Damsel, Taking up new challenges and going for the things that scare me most; remains the single most important thing I did last year. I may have done a lot of awesome things but if you ask me, this was the most awesome; it gave me packages I never thought existed. Last year saw me taking steps that I was scared of taking in the past. I tried things I never thought would work for me and they did work for me. I acquired new skills and discovered beautiful parts of me I never knew existed. But most importantly, it added value to my life. I don't know what scares you most or which dream you doubt you can achieve, but today, I inspire you to go for them, be great. Tell me, have you ever taken a bold step to go for something that scares you most? Or have you ever tried something that you think was worth it? Share with me.

A week ago, a friend asked why I targeted young unmarried women as my main audience in the book instead of targeting women in general, of all ages. This was my response : I believe the right stage for women to work on themselves, make things happen, lay strong foundation and lead fulfilling lives, is their damsel stage. Undoubtedly, this is the only stage that we have freedom unlimited as women. We have no husband or family duties; the only responsibility we have is creating the world we desire to be in few years from now. Far from this truth, I've come to realise that, despite all the efforts being made to empower women, we seem to get it all wrong; we forget that some things are supposed to be done before married, we misplace priorities, we just go out of the bar. But that's not how its supposed to be. This is why I wrote this book for damsels. As a damsel myself, I've realised that we need to create the right mindset, which to me, is the first step toward leadin...

Another good question from one of my male readers: If 80% of the book content is useful to unmarried men, then why is the title channeled to women? My answer : The book was written with damsels in mind so the focus is on them. Right from birth, men are empowered to be strong, hardworking and get things done because they have responsibilities that include taking care of the family. So most of them grow with that mindset, unlike women. The book is channeled to women to provide the right mindset and essentials they couldn't receive earlier but needed so much, so they can make things happen too. If you haven't pre-ordered for your copy of Dear Damsel yet , do so by feeling a contact form on this blog . Do well to subscribe too for updates . Follow the official Facebook page of Dear Damsel or get interactive with me on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter .

Hello! I received this question from a male reader and instead of just answering him, I decided to share it here in case, you also need an answer to the same question. Well , my answer is " NO ". Dear Damsel can be read by young unmarried men; it is useful to men too. Yes! It is true I wrote this book with women in mind, but the truth is, I also wrote it with young people yearning to lead fulfilling lives in mind. In fact, about 80% of the content is equally useful to men who desire to discover and create themselves, make right choices, build healthy relationships, make things happen, and to create the world they dream of, before getting married. So, if you are a young man, just know you can also read my book; you are also a human and you are prone to dealing with some of what women deal with. You can pre-order by filling the contact form on the blog or by contacting 0554515688. Follow the official Facebook page of the book or get in touch with me on F...

As humans, we meet beautiful people, we experience beautiful moments and we receive beautiful packages from life; most of which are meant to be but most of which slip out of our life because of one lie - what is meant to be will be. We often use the excuse of what is meant to be will be whenever we are too lazy to work hard or whenever all we want to do is to give up. And this is so wrong. Sometimes, you need to prove "what is meant to be" that it is really meant to be. You need to fight for it, work for it and give it beautiful reasons to stay. You don't have to cowardly back off just because of a single problem (that's supposed to test you) or because you are lazily doing other things. Don't allow great people and things to slip out of your life just like that because of little problems. Every relationship at some point is set to face hiccups, and every beautiful package at some point needs to be preserved. Sweetheart, Before you give up on that friend, ...

"I desire and prefer to do things on my own and I believe every woman must try to do same." - Abigail Dwomoh Nyarko Abigail Dowmoh Nyarko is a social entrepreneur, secretary and human rights advocate. She is the CEO of Biggles Impact Foundation and the Ashanti Region Ambassador for Youth for Human Rights Africa. She is also into volunteering, writing and modeling. If there are two things Abigail is know for, it is her passion for volunteering (effortless to better a life or situation) and her willingness to never give up even when she fails. She believes that "when you fail, your failure must be a strength to others but not a weakness". Being responsible for your own needs, extending help to others and embracing failure as a strength, not weakness; isn't this awesome? Abigail is my damsel on fire for this episode. Be on fire!

"I believe in helping your  fellow to get there and she will pull you up there too." - Naa Anyeley Sowah Naa Anyeley Sowah, also known as Meredith, is a model, dancer, MC and a volunteer. Meredith believes that, as damsels, we are supposed not just to love each other but as well believe in and support each other. She is aware of the fact that we all have flaws but she is also aware that no matter what, "love, believe in and support for" should not be a lack in our lives. As a damsel who is still pursuing her dreams in life, she is bold to be who she is and do what she wants to do. She is also ever ready to accept challenges that brings the beat out of her, try new things, and support initiatives that impact lives. Being your true self despite what others say, believing in and supporting other ladies, and trying new things as a way of pursing your dreams, is she not on fire? Meredith is our damsel on fire for today. Be on fire!!!

"Sacrifice, work hard, focus, learn, be nice; it does magic." - Edem Roberta Abbeyquaye Edem Roberta Abbeyquaye is a multimedia journalist, photographer and a volunteer. She is also a human rights advocate, speaker, content producer, and heyye, she's on a mission to be build a tompire (lol) Edem believes that " fulfillment comes in doing things you love " and so she is addicted to learning new things (including skills), showing love and support to those who need it, pursuing her dreams and doing whatever she finds herself doing well (working hard). As a damsel, Edem is so much on fire and just by meeting her, I tell you, you will be empowered to be on fire too. She is my damsel on fire for today. Want to know how to be on fire? Wait expectantly for my book, # DearDamsel .  It will be released on March 31 2018; you can pre order by contacting 0554515688.

"If I could be my dream woman: I would be an example and a source of inspiration to all the young people around me; always willing to teach, mentor and encourage. My dream woman knows that she's far from perfect but at the same time she is a leader in her field and is able to inspire and influence." - Auguster Asantewa Boateng Auguster Asantewaa Boateng is a broadcast journalist, human rights advocate, social entrepreneur, sanitation reporter, mentor and life coach. She is the founder and convener of The Butterfly Effect, 2017 Pro-Volunteer youth leader of the month August, mentor to participants of Face of GirlEmpowered, and she is very passionate about sustainable development. If Auguster is not on fire, what is she on? This is what being on fire is all about; daring to empower others to assess their rights, caring for the needy and being who you dream of becoming. Auguster is my damsel on fire for today. Be on fire!

"Being different isn't bad. It means you are bold enough to be yourself." - Fella Makafui Fella Makafui is a damsel who seems to know what the game is about; she has discovered herself, her purpose and the kind of world she feels comfortable in, and she's on a mission to create who she yearns to be. Fella is an actress, brand ambassador, entrepreneur and a philanthropist. She acknowledges the fact that "our generation gives up way too fast and way too easy" and she's determined to be the unique. She is living and pursuing her dreams;  making things happen, establishing businesses, impacting into lives, giving back to society and presenting herself in a way that gets everyone talking, yet pays no attention to what the talk is about. Isn't this what being on fire is all about? Breaking limitations, daring to be different and living the life you dream of despite the negativities and pressure from the world. Fella is a damsel on fire; my damsel on fi...